Why kyle Lowry cant have it both ways

At age 32 Kyle lowry wants  to win a  title and  as well got top dollar  in free agency after  outplaying his 12  million salary, now mike  Conley's deal is what has  inflated  his value as Memphis  gave conley 5 years 133 million an average of 30.6 million a year, With that price and Lowry and Chris Paul much better   point gaurds  both  want more, both have been linked  to the Spurs as Tony Parker is at the   end  of  his career and his best  days are  behind him, the Spurs  to contend  in the playoffs with Golden state, Houston need to  have a faster  up tempo  offence which  both  Lowry and Paul can  give, but  the Spurs  have a  ton of  money  committed to Leonard and  Aldridge that if Lowry wants 20 million  the Sours are  unlikely to  be able to give that. Toronto will likely only retain PJ Tucker and try dumping Carroll 14.6 salary to add pieces  off the bench, ethier Powell starts at the 3 or plays between the 2-3 and on D is at SG while Demar is at  SF to help  size matchups. Toronto has been rumoured to overhaul the O after it could not score  vs the Cavs, and possible a 3 year 50 million deal is the best they can offer 15-17, be  blunt  we  value  you and are  giving you a raise but we need  a better supporting cast and this  is the best we can do, if you Stay you are still on a contender. If he wants 20+-25 he  can go play FOR A Perennial loser like New  york, Philadelphia